Atith

 Insaano ko naa apne atith ko chaatne ki adaat hai. Apne purane zkhmo aur atit ko chatna , exactly what mens does like me , at sometime metaphorically. They think ki unke future unke past pe dependent hai. Arey bhyi bhul jaaiyoh jo hua tha. Nahi bhul paa rhe ho toh itni saari freshly memories bnaayoh ki yeh memories aapke past ke memories ke comparison me domination haasil kar le appke Dil aur dimag me. I am stammer, shy nd introvert. Muh kholta hu toh kuch shi se nahi bol pata aur na hi kb bol paaunga kuch lekin likhne me toh like PhD krr rkhi hai maine. 

Apne past pe stucked raih krr hklaana is more worst than ki apne present ki beautiful memories share krke hklaana. Kyuki in 2nd case there's 50-50 probability of being sad nd happy. While you're feeling low bcz u're stammering at the same time ur feeling good bcz u share the memories with your loved one,